"If parental love and
support could combine with teaching excellence, administrative
discourse, and the best of research available, we could find answers
for our 2e children."
− Kiesa Kay
"Too often the
strengths and interests of GLD students are either unrecognized,
seen but ignored, put on hold, or are irksome because they are the
wrong talents for conventional school achievement."
− Susan Baum and
Steven Owen
"If a teacher can
rescue the “hidden student” who has simply been buried under a
barrage of never-ending irrelevant assignments, she will see
miracles begin to appear."
− Marilyn
Leuer
"One of the great
unrecognized dramas of childhood has been the struggle throughout
history, sometimes spectacularly successful and other times dismally
unsuccessful, of the unusual learner to find his best place in
life."
− Edward M. Hallowell
"…there is also the
question of what is the cost to society of not developing the
potential of these children. We have to consider the cost in
emotional suffering and the cost to society of not having the next
Edison."
− Richard Weinfeld
"What do we do to them
to make them afraid and angry? There should be a conference on what
the outside world is like rather than the children. How much is
created by the environment and not innate in the child?"
− Annemarie Roeper
"If a child is
perceived and perceives himself or herself as disabled, that is what
he or she will become. If the child’s self-concept is that of a
person with both ability and disability, that very belief will both
strengthen and assist him or her in overcoming whatever problems
exist." − Marlene Bireley
"There is no
requirement in education in the United States to focus on the
individual. We’re going to lose twice-exceptional kids without
having this focus."
− F. Richard Olenchak
"Gifted children with
learning disabilities who are seen as defective, in constant need of
remediation, come to view themselves with shame and doubt….But when
those closest to them honor their strengths and believe in their
ability to fulfill their dreams, they are able to mobilize their
will to succeed against all odds.
− Linda Silverman
"In my field we say
that change only comes when we become uncomfortable. 2e parents are
uncomfortable and are, hopefully, making their schools
uncomfortable. It's time for more parents to become so, because
education needs to change."
− Melissa Sornik
"Perhaps the most
innovative thinkers include not only the ones with the greatest
intellectual talents, but also the ones who blend that intellect
with perceptive dysfunctions that allow them to function beyond the
norm."
− Kiesa Kay
"Educators who take
the time to understand parents’ views of their child more readily
recognize a child’s strengths and meet his or her needs. Parents who
take the time to understand the teacher’s view of the child as a
student more readily recognize a child’s weaknesses and work to
develop skills."
− Edward R. Amend
"Many of our greatest
historical contributors in this world are individuals who would now
be labeled LD in the public school system. In many cases, their
gifts would have never been spotted and would have been crushed
right out of them. Can you imagine?"
− Therese Clifford
"The biggest mistake
we make in life is to treat everyone equally when it comes to
learning."
− Mel Levine
".…[W]e should be more
concerned with results than with trying to get everyone to learn
things in the same way…. In some cases, the conventional educational
system may eliminate many of those who have the greatest high-level
talents, especially when these talents are predominantly visual
rather than verbal."
− Thomas West
"…just as we have an
obligation to care for those with special hardships, we also have an
obligation to do something…to encourage those with special talents.
A society that ignores children with the most promise is no better
than a society that shuns those with the least."
− Jonathan Last
"School for the [2e]
student is rarely a positive experience, but for the adolescent
learner, it can be a nightmare….[T]hese students have remarkable
gifts and talents that need development. When… engaged, their
efficacy soars….On the other hand, [they] struggle with simple tasks
like organization, writing, spelling, reading, or paying attention.
In those times, students find themselves in survival mode fighting
to stay afloat."
− Susan Baum, Mary Rizza, and Sara Renzulli (The Handbook of
Secondary Gifted Education)
"Labels are starting
points, not destinations – and certainly not destinies."
− Fernette and Brock Eide
"Learning differences
are lifelong, and although they may create embarrassment or failure
during school years, later on they may be part of personal charm."
− Priscilla Vail
"While parents of all
children who are not in the mainstream do not have an easy time in
our society, the fact that 2e children’s disabilities mask their
giftedness, and their giftedness masks their disabilities, makes it
incredibly hard to get the “experts” to listen and to understand
that you can’t just average the two and say this is an average
child."
− Joan Affenit
"These amazing
children are not deficient; they are different. We would all do
better to remember this and learn to embrace these differences for
the benefit of us all."
− Cindy Little
"In a time when
giftedness is not valued in the United States, and exceptionalities
are a problem because of high-stakes testing, 2e children have a
twice-difficult time being identified, nurtured, and supported in
the school system."
− Anonymous response to 2e Newsletter survey
"It is a common
mistake to take something exceptional as a defect." −
Michael Piechowski
"Through a
collaborative approach that emphasizes sharing their diverse
perspectives, teachers and parents can invigorate the love of
learning inherent in twice-exceptional students."
− Daphne
Pereles
"I loved feeling
special. I hated feeling special."
− Garrison
Keillor
"There are no learning
disabilities. There are only teaching disabilities. Each child
wants to succeed and each child is successful on his own time
line."
− Dr. Jane Snider
"…I have come to
believe that the children with the most phenomenal gifts often have
severe deficits and that they compensate for these deficits in novel
and unexpected ways."
− Amy Bailey
“‘Fairness’ is not
equal, identical treatment; rather ‘fairness’ means that every
student receives what he/she needs.”
− Richard
Lavoie